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Funeral Directors Explained

By: Elizabeth Grace - Updated: 16 Jul 2010 | comments*Discuss
 
Funerals Funeral Directors Preplanning

Most people turn to the services of experienced funeral directors when a loved one dies. Having professional guidance available so that all of the detailed will be addressed can make the difficult process less daunting, so choosing a funeral director is an important decision.

Traditional Funerals

In most circumstances, families contact a funeral director after the death of a loved one for assistance in planning and carrying out appropriate services. A number of considerations may affect the choice of a director, including geographical location, the attractiveness of the funeral home, reputation for caring service, and preferences that were expressed by the deceased.

Religious affiliations may also impact the decision to choose one director over another, but most funeral professionals have the ability to accommodate the beliefs of a wide variety of people.

Once seated to make funeral arrangements, family members will choose from a variety of coffins, decide on the length and type of service preferred, and settle on a cost that the family finds manageable. Funeral services can be quite costly, but the presence of life insurance may cover or at least offset some of the expenses.

Pre-Arranging Funeral Services

There is a growing trend toward preplanning or pre-arranging funerals. Some people choose to do so because they feel strongly about the type of services that they’d like after they die and working with a funeral director in advance can provide assurance that all aspects of the service will be as chosen.

Patrons can select specific coffins, burial sites, memorial plaques or headstones, and even the wording of the death notice. Additionally, religious preferences can be noted and clients can make personal selections regarding readings, music, and flower arrangements, if they so choose.

Prepayment options are usually available so that all aspects of the services can be handled before a death occurs, leaving family members only to provide notification when the time comes.

Green and Eco-Friendly Funerals

People are increasingly aware of the need to be ecologically responsible and many people are looking for ways to keep things as natural as possible. Today’s funeral directors are receiving regular requests for eco-funerals, with the practice of choosing woodland burials gaining in popularity with ecologically minded people everywhere.

There are a number of woodland and meadow burial locations currently available in the UK, each kept as natural and wild as possible. Those who choose green funerals select coffins made from biodegradable materials such as wicker or chipboard, forego the embalming process, and substitute the planting of a memorial tree for the more traditional plaque or grave marker. Funeral directors can help those who express interest in such services to make selections that fall within the criteria of eco-friendly funerals.

Funerals provide friends and family members the opportunity to gather and remember the life of someone who meant something to them. Tears usually flow, but smiles, hugs, and warm wishes are prevalent, too. Funeral directors are well trained in helping the bereaved to make the necessary arrangements and overseeing the services to assure that things run smoothly.

Family members shouldn’t hesitate to ask their chosen funeral director for assistance in any aspect of the planning of services for their loved ones; professional directors strive to make the process as easy and pain-free as possible.

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